“There is great peace found in the foundational understanding that we are invited into intimacy with a person, not a principle.” Jimmy Seibert // 

In all the areas of your life that need a breakthrough, whether it’s in relationships, emotions, or finances, you can boil everything down to one major problem: trust in God. It is why we bury bitterness deep in our hearts and why our fists are gripped tightly around our money. Why do we find ourselves refusing to relinquish control to God yet beg Him for vision when it comes to the purpose of our lives? We won’t surrender our marriages to Him and would instead figure out how to make ends meet on our own. But when it comes to making a decision, we ask God for a supernatural sign to point us in the right direction, and then casually carry on. It’s a reality we’ve normalized in our relationship with God, asking for guidance only when necessary. We logically know we should trust God, but truthfully, most of the time, we don’t. It leaves us feeling lonely to a seemingly distant God.

How do we expect to hear God directing us in our decisions if we can’t trust Him with our money or relationships? How do we go from making one-time decisions with God to a lifetime of listening to God’s plan for us?

Trust

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths” Proverbs 3:5-6.

Finding your purpose with God starts with understanding that it is not about you. We live in a world where we think we don’t really need Jesus; we think we are good enough and can manage ourselves. Or, we feel we have out-sinned Jesus and are too far gone. Both are arrogant, selfish and both miss the heart of God’s desire to partner with us. We are created beings, made to glorify the Creator; we are invaluable to our Father and nothing short of miraculous. We are not the point but are invited into the point—relationship with God. When we understand this crucial point, we will remove ourselves as the point and humbly come into a right relationship as creation.

Trust With All Your Heart

God doesn’t ask for a piece of our heart—He wants all of it. A shared heart isn’t full surrender or full affection for a God who has wholly and fully proven His love for us. We live in a world that romances our hearts and takes pieces of it—social media, porn, sex, food—anything can claim our affection, but these will all prove to be empty and dissatisfying. “God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).

God doesn’t just say He loves us – He has proven the depths of His love for us and pursued us while we were still sinners. God aches and desires relationship with us more than we ever will with Him, and He proved it by sending His only son to die in our place. When we understand the depth of His love for us, our affections are stirred and pour out in overflow for Him. Giving Him our full heart is no longer a chore but is through weeping reverence.

Trust Not in Your Own Understanding

When trying to understand our purpose and where to go next, we need to turn to God. We can trust His judgment and His good advice. “The wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere” (James 3:17). Seeking first the opinion of God isn’t just out of obedience, but out of love and affection for Him. Just like any relationship, when we spend time talking with God, our hearts are filled with more of Him and His plans for us are further revealed, even if it’s just the next step. This furthers our understanding that we are fully dependent on God and not ourselves.

“Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors, there is safety” (Proverbs 11:14). With a million voices and noises competing for our attention, honing in on the voice of God and the counsel of godly people can make all the difference. When pressure hits and you need advice, who is it that you call? We can’t confide in bitter, foolish friends expecting righteous advice. Surround yourself with godly people and find comfort knowing the lens they view the world is through God.

Trust and Acknowledge Him

It’s key to remember that as believers, we aren’t following a principle, moral system or laws. We walk with and follow a person. It is less about what we do but the fact we get to do it with God. We are privileged to walk with Jesus through every circumstance, trusting that in everything we do, it is for a grand purpose and to glorify a grand King. “The steps of a man are established by the Lord when he delights in his way; though he fall, he shall not be cast headlong, for the Lord upholds his hand” (Psalm 37:23-24). We are told our steps are determined by a God who delights to walk it with us. There is great peace found in the foundational understanding that we are invited into intimacy with a person, not a principle.

Trust is foundational to our relationship with God and our relationship with everything and everyone else. When we remove ourselves, our anxieties and misunderstanding, we can step into sweet intimacy with Jesus, trusting Him and His will for our lives.