“There is great peace found in the foundational understanding that we are invited into intimacy with a person, not a principle.” Jimmy Seibert //
In all the areas of your life that need a breakthrough, whether it’s in relationships, emotions, or finances, you can boil everything down to one major problem: trust in God. It is why we bury bitterness deep in our hearts and why our fists are gripped tightly around our money. Why do we find ourselves refusing to relinquish control to God yet beg Him for vision when it comes to the purpose of our lives? We won’t surrender our marriages to Him and would instead figure out how to make ends meet on our own. But when it comes to making a decision, we ask God for a supernatural sign to point us in the right direction, and then casually carry on. It’s a reality we’ve normalized in our relationship with God, asking for guidance only when necessary. We logically know we should trust God, but truthfully, most of the time, we don’t. It leaves us feeling lonely to a seemingly distant God.
How do we expect to hear God directing us in our decisions if we can’t trust Him with our money or relationships? How do we go from making one-time decisions with God to a lifetime of listening to God’s plan for us?
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths” Proverbs 3:5-6.
Finding your purpose with God starts with understanding that it is not about you. We live in a world where we think we don’t really need Jesus; we think we are good enough and can manage ourselves. Or, we feel we have out-sinned Jesus and are too far gone. Both are arrogant, selfish and both miss the heart of God’s desire to partner with us. We are created beings, made to glorify the Creator; we are invaluable to our Father and nothing short of miraculous. We are not the point but are invited into the point—relationship with God. When we understand this crucial point, we will remove ourselves as the point and humbly come into a right relationship as creation.
Trust With All Your Heart
God doesn’t ask for a piece of our heart—He wants all of it. A shared heart isn’t full surrender or full affection for a God who has wholly and fully proven His love for us. We live in a world that romances our hearts and takes pieces of it—social media, porn, sex, food—anything can claim our affection, but these will all prove to be empty and dissatisfying. “God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).
God doesn’t just say He loves us – He has proven the depths of His love for us and pursued us while we were still sinners. God aches and desires relationship with us more than we ever will with Him, and He proved it by sending His only son to die in our place. When we understand the depth of His love for us, our affections are stirred and pour out in overflow for Him. Giving Him our full heart is no longer a chore but is through weeping reverence.
Trust Not in Your Own Understanding
When trying to understand our purpose and where to go next, we need to turn to God. We can trust His judgment and His good advice. “The wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere” (James 3:17). Seeking first the opinion of God isn’t just out of obedience, but out of love and affection for Him. Just like any relationship, when we spend time talking with God, our hearts are filled with more of Him and His plans for us are further revealed, even if it’s just the next step. This furthers our understanding that we are fully dependent on God and not ourselves.
“Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors, there is safety” (Proverbs 11:14). With a million voices and noises competing for our attention, honing in on the voice of God and the counsel of godly people can make all the difference. When pressure hits and you need advice, who is it that you call? We can’t confide in bitter, foolish friends expecting righteous advice. Surround yourself with godly people and find comfort knowing the lens they view the world is through God.
Trust and Acknowledge Him
It’s key to remember that as believers, we aren’t following a principle, moral system or laws. We walk with and follow a person. It is less about what we do but the fact we get to do it with God. We are privileged to walk with Jesus through every circumstance, trusting that in everything we do, it is for a grand purpose and to glorify a grand King. “The steps of a man are established by the Lord when he delights in his way; though he fall, he shall not be cast headlong, for the Lord upholds his hand” (Psalm 37:23-24). We are told our steps are determined by a God who delights to walk it with us. There is great peace found in the foundational understanding that we are invited into intimacy with a person, not a principle.
Trust is foundational to our relationship with God and our relationship with everything and everyone else. When we remove ourselves, our anxieties and misunderstanding, we can step into sweet intimacy with Jesus, trusting Him and His will for our lives.
Senior Pastor Jimmy Seibert finished our 40 Days of Breakthrough series with a message on calling. We dove into Proverbs 3:5-6, looking at the importance of trust. When we are faced with a decision about our calling, Jimmy challenged us to trust in the Lord, trust from the bottom of our hearts and trust that we do not have to figure out everything on our own.
Senior Pastor Jimmy Seibert continued our 40 Days of Breakthrough series with a message on finances. How we view finances should not be determined by what we have or what we do but by our heart posture. We can honor God with what we have and choose to live simply, work diligently and give generously.
“We need to come in alignment with God and rest in the truth that He is enough; He is trustworthy with everything, including our finances, and we aren’t just commanded but invited into intimacy with Him through stewarding our money well.” Jimmy Seibert //
Money is a hidden part of our lives that very few people will ever see, yet we deal with it every single day. Whether tangibly exchanging it or mentally stressing over it, our finances are woven into the very fabric of our culture. It is the heartbeat of how we function, as to how much we make primarily categorizes us into classes and cliques, shows what we value and feeds an appetite that is never satisfied. In America, we are amongst the wealthiest countries in the world yet are the most stressed about one major thing: money. No wonder there is upwards of 2,300 mentions of money and possessions in the Bible with one main takeaway—you cannot serve two masters.
“No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money” (Matthew 6:24).
As believers, we live in a culture that cultivates the idea that we love God first, but perhaps we love money second (and based on how we steward our money, it could be argued we live the other way around). How can we posture our hearts toward money and find a breakthrough in our finances?
“Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned that in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through Him who strengthens me” (Phil. 4:11-13). Paul is speaking from firsthand experience in desperate need and glorious abundance—and in both, he challenges us to choose contentment.
In a culture where our fists are tightly gripped on the American Dream and keeping up with Jones’s, finding contentment isn’t just a battle of comparison but a battle of gratitude. It’s easy to let jealousy and comparison seep in; we adopt them naturally, and they rob us of freedom in our finances and freedom to trust God with our finances. Ultimately, jealousy and comparison disorder our hearts to be filled with a striving mentality and selfish ambition over resources that aren’t ours, anyways. This isn’t to say there won’t be times of great need – there will be – but what does it look like to have an attitude of gratitude and look to God and community to support us? We know God satisfies all things, and when we focus on how we can honor God with what He’s given us, our fists can loosen and we experience the fullness of peace in our finances (Psalm 145:16).
The above sounds easy enough, but there is a catch: we are invited into a partnership with God to work diligently for Him. This isn’t striving or a works-based relationship; but, a coming under the sovereignty of God. Proverbs 14:23 says, “In all toil there is profit, but mere talk tends only in poverty”, affirming and encouraging our hard work. God isn’t telling us to prove ourselves for blessing and resources – He invites us into intimacy with Him and the privilege of working solely to glorify Him. Regardless of what you’re doing, when you honor God and work hard, you put yourself in an environment that trusts God will meet needs, whatever those are.
Colossians 3:23-24: “Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward.” You are serving the Lord Christ. The challenge is to remind ourselves that when we work hard, it is for God and it is an intimate piece of our relationship with Him.
So, you’ve established a heart of gratitude and are working hard – now what? A key piece of our lives as believers is to give generously. You don’t know just how tight you are gripping your money until you are asked to give it away. Firstly, we tithe to the local church out of obedience. To be clear, 10% is just a starting point and was created to honor God and give our resources back to God freely. God knew what He was doing when He gave us a hard percentage – it’s adjustable to each person but is still sacrificial. It gives us a clear place to begin and calls for us to ‘put our money where our mouth is.’ Secondly, we give out of compassion for people, and we do it joyfully:
“The point is this: whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows bountifully will also reap bountifully. Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.” (2 Corinthians 9:6-7).
When we give generously to others, we are creating an environment for God to work through our money; it invites us to relinquish control and extend a gracious gift to those who are undeserving, just like we are undeserving. Remember, everything is God’s anyway – not ours!
We need to come in alignment with God and rest in the truth that He is enough; He is trustworthy with everything, including our finances, and we aren’t just commanded but invited into intimacy with Him through stewarding our money well. When we live simply, work diligently and give generously, we step into a heart posture that honors God and depends on God for provision. It is sacrificial, hard and counter-cultural. But it is a key area to experience breakthroughs and create space for God to work in and through our lives.
“The biggest breakdown in offense and forgiveness isn’t God—it’s our unwillingness to cooperate with the authority and truth of God’s word.” Jimmy Seibert //
Relationships with friends, family, spouses and even our enemies are tricky. Friendships are messy, family is family, and well, there may be a list of enemies that we keep. As we move throughout life, accumulating relationships, we also gather something else: offense. It’s as old as Adam and takes root deep within us, often left untended and stuffed down. Offense can sprout from one snide remark from your spouse or the betrayal of a close friend.
If we’re honest, we all probably keep a list of everyone who has wronged us, always ready with a full account to argue our case with God. The problem with keeping debts, taking offense and letting pains accumulate? Offenses will grow deep roots within us and keep us in a heart environment of unforgiveness and bitterness. If we continuously choose an offense-reaction in a broken world, we will adopt lies as truth and forfeit forgiveness. Choosing forgiveness and taking practical steps toward reconciliation is really, really hard. But not as hard as the reality of how unforgiveness on our account keeps us from healing and experiencing God in His fullness. How, then, can we find breakthrough in all of our relationships and manage our hearts for offense?
1. Pray. It’s not a cliché first-step or an after-thought; prayer and forgiveness is a daily process to keep our hearts from clinging to offense, between you and other people, and even you and God (Matt. 6:11-14). The process is daily because we are offended daily, and little wounds can become big wounds if left untended. If we make forgiveness a daily habit, we actively acknowledge a wrong against us (or a wrong we committed) and are able to choose the response of forgiveness or repentance. We also get to step into praying for our enemies; forgiving someone from a distance is one thing—and it’s a good thing! But, praying for blessings, grace and mercy over our enemies is another, and it’s one that forces more intentionality and spiritual maturity on our part (Matt. 5:43-45).
2. Hold onto the Promises of God. The biggest breakdown in offense and forgiveness isn’t God—it’s our unwillingness to cooperate with the authority and truth of God’s word. The word of God keeps daily blows of offense from a broken world from coming in as truth. If we are going to fight against offense and build strong relationships, we need to know the word of God and know that it is true for everyone. The sin that lives in me is the same sin that lives within my worst enemy and only the truth of the cross is enough to cover us both. Forgiveness isn’t effective if it’s only for me—forgiveness is effective because it is an extension of the Gospel and applies to everyone, every time, no matter the sin (Col. 3:12-15). That is not to say sin doesn’t have very real consequences, but God’s grace is true, and forgiveness allows for full restoration to begin within us.
3. Engage people. We engage God with prayer, but we also have to engage people knowing from the beginning that they will hurt us. We are always going to get hurt because we live in a broken world, but the challenge is to forgive before we ever get the privilege of the whole story. As believers, we are called to bring reconciliation, and when we withhold forgiveness, we hinder reconciliation with others and in our own hearts. We are welcomed and encouraged to confront hurts with one another, but the moment we back away from relationships and build walls instead, we create a blockage for healing and reconciliation. Press into people and lead with forgiveness.
4. Fill yourself with truth. The last key to breakthrough in our relationships, and easily the hardest, is the personal change of being filled by the word of God instead of the words of the world. The world tells us we are justified in our reactions, validates our pain and divides us with a lack of repentance and lack of forgiveness. We keep lists and make sure we get revenge, forever cursing our enemies. The word of God argues in 1 Thessalonians 5:12-15, “Live in peace with each other. And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone. Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else”. Counter-cultural, to say the least, but peaceful and desirable in a world of sin.
Senior Pastor Jimmy Seibert continued our 40 Days of Breakthrough series with a message on relationships. Unresolved offense can lead to unforgiveness, which creates a blockage, clogging our hearts and relationships. Jimmy challenged us to align our hearts to God, drop our offense and press into our relationships with a forgiving heart.
“Our belief and understanding in Jesus determines whether we live in the abundance that God offers or in continued distance from God.” – Jimmy Seibert //
It’s easy to know biblical truths about God: His mercy, grace, love and acceptance easily come to mind. But, we often don’t live in that truth; we live in a world of sin, shame and guilt. Living in the latter can leave us feeling distant from God because we are giving up freedom in truth for shackles in lies. We forget that access to the reality of abundant grace is through one: Jesus (Romans 5:17).
So, why do we have access to God’s abundance but choose to live on the side of sin and shame? Usually, it’s because we’ve put ourselves as the ultimate authority in our lives. We’ve put desires, materials, relationships and accolades in a seat where only God can sit. When we follow our ways instead of God’s ways, it will end in destruction every time.
We really do have access to a life that is abundant and thriving within the reality of mercy, grace, love and acceptance. Finding breakthrough in our relationship with God and the world we live in starts and ends with putting God back in the place He is meant to be: first.
We can’t move forward in relationship with God without being secure in the importance of the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus. Without this sacrifice, we have nothing to bridge the gap between us and God. When we believe in the fullness and completeness of the resurrection, our hope is secured not only for eternity but for today. There is power in the impossible and there is hope for our relationship because of the truth of the gospel (1 Cor. 15:3-4, Heb. 4:16).
“He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together. He is also the head of the body, the church; and He is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, so that He Himself will come to have first place in everything” (Col. 1:17). God’s place is first with:
- Our time
- Our family and relationships
- Our money
- Our work
Compartmentalization has no place when it comes to the reign and rightful place of God within every aspect of our lives.
Breakthrough isn’t just a power or a process—it’s a person. Our hearts are the control center of our desires, thoughts, intentions, understanding and will. From our hearts flow the springs of life, which means whatever has our affections will control everything else in our lives (Proverbs 4:23). It is through a relationship with Jesus that we grow in intimacy with Him, resulting in affection and love for Him.
These 40 days are all centered on breakthrough. But if we don’t get this first one, conviction in the power of Jesus’ resurrection and God’s rightful place in our lives, none of the other breakthroughs matter. Because ultimately this is about strengthening our relationship with God, and He is such a good Father that His heart is to bring us breakthrough in all areas of our lives, but even more than that it is about relationship.
- Realistically, when you look at your life, what place does God have? Where is He in your priorities?
- If you don’t yet have a breakthrough you are believing for in your relationship with God, take time to ask Him. Ask for His heart and perspective in your relationship, see places of growth and ask Him for breakthrough.
Whether following Jesus is new for you or you have been doing this your whole life, breakthrough starts and ends with Jesus. He is first importance, takes first place and is our first love.
We hope to see you next week as we continue our series!
Senior Pastor Jimmy Seibert kicked off our 40 Days of Breakthrough series by talking about breakthrough in our relationship with God. Jesus’ life, death and resurrection are central because He made a way for us. Jesus is the bridge, taking us from sin, guilt, and shame to redemption, truth and grace through a relationship with Him.
“You were made for breakthrough by the Spirit of God and the people of God.” Jimmy Seibert //
When it comes to breakthrough, it can seem as if our circumstances rule; addiction, anxiety, finances and relationships are all areas we want breakthrough but feel like it will never come. We are often hopeless amidst our circumstances, faced with big giants and even bigger unbelief. But, as believers, there is more in store. Breakthrough isn’t for some of us, but all of us; God is committed to breakthrough more than we are and intervenes on our behalf. He raises us up, anointing us for change well before we even want it. And, He doesn’t want to help us just a little bit – He wants to let the water flow.
Let’s take David, for example. He was rejected by man but anointed by God (1 Chronicles 14:8-11). He didn’t have to raise himself up amidst his circumstances, but God was with him and was committed to a breakthrough in David’s life way before David was. Breakthrough changed the trajectory of his life – and the lives of thousands of others.
So, the question is, how do we find breakthrough?
Everything begins with an honest prayer of the heart. David openly and honestly cried out to God, pouring his heart out. Many times, we are great at pouring our hearts out but forget to ask God what to do next. When we are honest with God and give Him space to speak, He will lead us to action, and this can get us on the path to breakthrough (1 Chronicles 14:10, Luke 18:1). When we cry out to God, He shifts our perspective from a focus on unbelief, but to a remembrance of the goodness of God and His commitment to us. Pray to God honestly about where you are needing a breakthrough.
Scripture is God’s revealed will for us and His words are promised; they never come back empty and we know He hears us (1 John 5:14-15). We can be confident in the requests we’ve made known to Him and stand on the solid truth of scripture. What is the promise from God related to your need? Find scripture to cling to and declare it over your life!
Seeking change on our own doesn’t work. We were meant to partner with brothers and sisters in Christ to fight and celebrate one another. We see in Mark 2, the story of a paralytic man who is lowered into the house by his four friends to seek radical healing from Jesus. His friends were just as desperate as he was for breakthrough and this is where glory is found; it’s not within personal breakthrough but battling with our friends and celebrating victories together. Who are you believing with for breakthrough? What are they believing for? (Mark 2:4-5)
Breakthrough calls for a commitment to real change. This is the point where direct action is needed to change a habit or a mindset (Romans 12:2). We can’t passively pursue change – we are called to partner with God for a real breakthrough. As we repent, we turn away from old habits and turn to Jesus as we are led to the promise of a breakthrough that is coming. In the area you are believing for a breakthrough, what habits can you change?
Throughout the process of breakthrough, we need to adopt a posture of praise: praise before, praise during and praise after. We can present our needs, rest in His promises, declare His victories – it’s all praise. An environment of praise gives God every opportunity to move in our lives, even if we haven’t yet seen our breakthrough. Our circumstances don’t matter and don’t keep us from experiencing breakthrough (Acts 16:25-26).
Everywhere Jesus went, He brought breakthrough – the circumstance didn’t matter. A paralyzed man, raging seas, even death. Jesus demonstrated breakthrough emotionally, physically and spiritually, and through the resurrection, demonstrated the ultimate breakthrough. We will never be hopeless in our circumstances because Jesus has already claimed the ultimate breakthrough.
Senior Pastor, Jimmy Seibert, set the vision for our upcoming series, 40 Days of Breakthrough, by looking at the life of David, the giants he faced and how God showed Himself to be the God of the breakthrough. Jimmy encouraged us to press into five areas these next 40 days: prayer, promise, people, personal change and praise, as we find a breakthrough for ourselves and others.